Perinatal Support
Becoming a parent — or trying to — is one of the most significant experiences a person can go through. It can be filled with joy, love, and wonder. It can also be filled with fear, grief, exhaustion, and emotions that are hard to make sense of, let alone talk about. Sometimes it’s all of those things at once.
Whatever you’re feeling right now, it’s valid. And you deserve support that truly understands what this season of life asks of you.
What Perinatal Mental Health Really Means
Perinatal mental health covers the full journey — from fertility challenges and pregnancy, through birth and the postpartum period, and into early parenthood. It’s a season that can stretch across years, and the emotional landscape of it is far more complex than our culture often acknowledges.
We provide compassionate, informed care for individuals and partners at every stage of this journey, including:
- Fertility challenges & infertility — the grief, stress, relationship strain, and emotional exhaustion that comes with trying to conceive, undergoing treatments, or facing an uncertain path to parenthood
- Pregnancy — anxiety about the health of your baby, fear of birth, complicated feelings about the changes happening to your body, or navigating a pregnancy after loss
- Pregnancy & infant loss — miscarriage, stillbirth, or the loss of a baby at any stage, and the profound grief that follows
- Postpartum depression & anxiety — feelings of sadness, numbness, overwhelm, or relentless worry that go beyond the typical “baby blues” and deserve real attention and care
- Postpartum rage — intense anger or irritability that feels frightening or out of character, and that is far more common than most people realize
- Birth trauma — processing a birth experience that was frightening, painful, or didn’t go the way you hoped
- Identity shifts — the profound — and often disorienting — experience of becoming a parent and figuring out who you are in this new role
- Relationship changes — navigating the significant shifts that parenthood brings to partnerships, including communication, intimacy, division of responsibilities, and feeling like a team
- The mental load — the invisible, relentless weight of managing a household and a family, and the resentment, burnout, and loneliness that can come with carrying too much
- Early parenthood stress — sleep deprivation, self-doubt, isolation, and the gap between what you thought parenthood would feel like and what it actually does
You Are Not Alone — and This Is Not Your Fault
One of the most important things we want you to know is that perinatal mental health struggles are incredibly common — and they have nothing to do with how much you love your baby, how strong you are, or what kind of parent you’re going to be. They are a normal human response to an enormous life transition, compounded by hormonal shifts, sleep deprivation, and a culture that often expects new parents to simply cope and be grateful.
Struggling doesn’t mean you’re failing. It means you’re human, and you need support. There is no shame in that — none at all.
This applies to partners too. Fathers, co-parents, and non-birthing partners experience their own very real emotional challenges during this season, and their wellbeing matters just as much.
How Therapy Supports You
Perinatal therapy is not one-size-fits-all. We meet you exactly where you are — whether you’re in the middle of fertility treatments, navigating the early weeks postpartum, processing a loss, or simply feeling overwhelmed by the weight of early parenthood.
Working together, we’ll help you:
- Make sense of what you’re feeling — putting words to experiences that can be hard to articulate, and understanding why you feel the way you do
- Process grief & trauma — creating space to mourn losses, work through difficult birth experiences, and heal from what has been hard
- Manage anxiety & depression — developing real, effective strategies for regulating your emotions and finding steadier ground
- Navigate identity & relationship shifts — exploring who you are becoming as a parent, and how to stay connected to yourself and your partner through the transition
- Reduce isolation — feeling genuinely heard and understood by someone who gets it, which in itself can be enormously healing
- Build confidence — finding your footing as a parent and trusting yourself more, even on the hard days
Practical Tools You’ll Take Away
Alongside the deeper emotional work, you’ll leave sessions with practical strategies that support your day-to-day wellbeing, including:
- Coping tools for anxiety & overwhelm — grounding techniques and calming strategies you can use in the moment, even at 3am
- Communication strategies — ways to talk to your partner about what you need, how you’re feeling, and how to navigate conflict with more care
- Boundary setting — learning to protect your energy, ask for help, and say no without guilt
- Self-compassion practices — tools for quieting the inner critic and treating yourself with the same kindness you’d offer a good friend
- Managing the mental load — practical approaches to redistributing responsibility and reducing the invisible weight you’ve been carrying
For Partners & Co-Parents
This space is for you too. Partners often feel helpless, overwhelmed, or unsure how to support someone they love who is struggling. They may also be carrying their own grief, anxiety, or adjustment challenges that go unacknowledged. We welcome partners and co-parents into this work — either alongside their person or in their own individual sessions.
You don’t have to have it all together to show up here. You just have to show up.
You Deserve Support Too
Caring for a new life is one of the most important things you’ll ever do. But you cannot pour from an empty cup. Getting support for your own mental health during this season isn’t a luxury — it’s one of the most meaningful things you can do for yourself, your baby, and your family.
We’d be honoured to walk alongside you through this.
Book a free 15-minute connection call or your first session today.
Our Therapists for Perinatal Support
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Jesslet Siluvairayan
Canadian Certified Counsellor

Vanessa Birch
Registered
Social Worker

Wendy Monks-Janzen
Registered Psychologist
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